Spirit of Dating

Spirit of Dating

The Spirit of Dating takes a clear, straightforward look at how men and women date today. George Dus breaks down real behaviour, communication, and the patterns that shape modern dating — so the whole process feels easier to understand.

Recent Episodes

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Jan. 28, 2026

It’s Not Ghosting. It’s a Boundary | Breadcrumbing, Ghosting and Boundaries in Modern Dating

When someone disappears right as things start to feel real, it can feel like rejection out of nowhere. In this episode of The Spirit of Dating, George tells the story of a woman who reconnects with “the one that got away” ten years later, only to watch him vanish again as soon as she mentions Valentine’s Day. ​ Using this story, he unpacks the psychology of ghosting and breadcrumbing in modern dating—how intermittent reinforcement creates slot‑machine relationships, why someone’s silence can s
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Dec. 12, 2025

When Things Get Weird After a Good Date | Decoding Mixed Signals in Early Dating

Early dating often feels clear one moment and confusing the next. The most common confusion happens right after a really good date: the connection felt genuine, but then the energy shifts abruptly, and the texts go silent. In this episode, George breaks down the dating psychology behind this sudden pullback. We look at why masculine energy often needs space to process intimacy, just as feminine energy seeks continuity. This isn't about fixing the situation or chasing connection; it's about un
1
Nov. 26, 2025

Modern Dating Is Rigged: How Apps Changed the Game

Modern dating often feels like a game you can't win. In this episode, George Dus reveals why apps are designed to keep you single and breaks down the dating psychology behind why good connections suddenly disappear.
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Nov. 13, 2025

Episode 5 — The Testing Game: When Trust Feels Safer Than Control | Spirit of Dating

Texting slower. Pulling back. Dropping hints to see how someone reacts. George explores the testing game, those protective behaviours that feel like safety but quietly erode connection, and why testing starts long before a relationship gets serious.
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Nov. 1, 2025

Episode 4 – Attraction vs. Attachment (Limerence): When Desire Reveals What's Still Healing

Do you mistake chaos for chemistry? George unpacks limerence, the all-consuming fantasy that gets mistaken for love. Through the story of Olivia and Ethan, he shows how deep text-based intimacy builds a version of someone that does not survive meeting them, and why calm feels boring when you are used to drama.
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Oct. 23, 2025

Emotional Safety — The Language of Calm Connection | Episode 3a

Real love does not make you nervous, it makes you calm. George Dus explores the science and spirit of emotional safety, how the body senses trust, and how to build relationships where your nervous system can finally rest. This is a re-release of Episode 3 with replaced background music.

About the Host

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George Dus

George Dus is a Tarot reader and intuitive advisor who has spent years hearing people talk through their dating and relationship situations. Most of what he understands about how men and women date now comes from the things people bring up during readings — a detail they’re unsure about, something that didn’t feel right, or a situation they’re trying to make sense of. Those real conversations are what shaped his perspective.

George has spent a long time paying attention to how people behave in early dating, how attraction builds or fades, what creates mixed signals, and where communication tends to fall apart. He looks at dating from a straightforward male point of view, grounded in behavior and day-to-day human dynamics rather than theories or trends.

His style is simple and direct. He explains things the way people actually talk about them — without jargon, without spiritual framing, and without overcomplicating what’s already confusing. His goal is to help listeners understand what’s happening between men and women today so dating feels a little clearer and a lot less frustrating.

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